Putney Friends Meeting

Putney Friends Meeting

A Quaker Congregation in Putney, Vermont ~ Worship, Fellowship, Education, Activist Support

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  • An Opportunity To Help Others This Winter

    The Drop-In Center in Brattleboro is collecting clothing and bedding material for people using the Overflow Shelter this winter.  Putney Meeting has offered once again to act as a drop-off point for any donations Friends and others from the Putney area may wish to make.  The large gray plastic bin on the porch of our Meetinghouse is the collection point.  The items donated will then be picked up and transported to the Drop-In Center in Brattleboro.  Please consider making a donation of clothing or bedding (including tarps) for which you may no longer have need.

     

    11/17/2013
    Uncategorized
  • Nonviolent Communication Workshops at Putney Friends

    Heart-Conscious Communication Workshop
    facilitated by Karen Fogliatti, Ph.D.
    based on the work of Marshall Rosenberg: NonViolent Communication (NVC)

    What to Say When You Don’t Agree

    Tired of arguing?
    Learn to communicate with authenticity and open-heartedness

    Imagine being able to:
     * Feel competent and stay present in the heat of differences
     * Be authentic while simultaneously holding the connection
     * Experience no fight, no flight, no giving in
     * Get to resolution you can both feel good about
     * Use conflict for personal growth and to enrich your relationships

    FREE INTRO: Thursday, October 17th
    6:00 – 8:30 pm at the Friends Meeting House, Putney, VT

    Optional Follow-up:
    8-WEEK Workshop
    Date: Thursdays, Oct. 17 – Dec. 12, 2013, 6 – 8:30 pm
    (First class can be used as a Free Intro; Can decide participation after class)
    Place: The Friends Meeting House in Putney, VT (wesr side of Rte. 5)
    Cost: $185-$260 (sliding scale), includes materials

    Facilitator: Karen Fogliatti, Ph.D.
    experienced educator, mediator, counselor

    For more information contact Karen at 413-773-8303 or karenmf@mindspring.com
    See website: www.heartconsciouscommunication.com; for NVC info & materials: www.cnvc.org

    10/08/2013
    Community Events
  • A Slide Show On Building Our New Meeting House

    This March Putney Friends Meeting celebrated the retirement of our mortgage for the new Meeting House addition and renovations. Below is a slide show by Roger Vincent Jasaitis showing the love and attention that went into building our new Meeting House.

    

    03/30/2013
    PFM Events
  • PFM Member Shares Her Perspective on FUM’s Discriminatory Personnel Policy

    Putney Friends Meeting is a member of Friends General Conference and Friends United Meeting. Our meeting has gone on record that it supports the overall work of FUM internationally, but opposes FUM’s personnel policy that discriminates against gay men and lesbians, including married ones. Below is a recent personal letter to FUM leaders from a member of Putney Friends Meeting who participated in this Fall’s international 40 Days of Prayer sponsored by FUM. It raises important issues about both faithfulness and justice.

    Dear Colin Saxton, Friends United Meeting Staff and General Board,

    Thank for creating a global prayer effort through the 40 Days of Prayer this fall. More than a dozen of us participated from Putney Meeting in Vermont. I heard comments that for many of us it opened our eyes to the important work FUM does with women and children. Others were grateful for the daily practice of prayer that they have continued in their own way. I noticed differences as a Quaker from Putney Vermont, an unprogrammed meeting, in our language and concepts regarding our faith and practices in the world. The themes of “stepping into deeper spiritual waters,” “radical inclusion,” and “healing fractured relationships,” constantly lead me to our testimony of equality.

    I find the FUM personnel policy as it defines marriage to be incongruent with the Quaker testimony of equality. In the reader you point out that Jesus uses the words, ”follow me.” We are reminded that Jesus was a,” fisher of people.” We read about “abiding “ in Christ. One writer shares how, “other people carry within them the breath of God.” I believe that the FUM personnel policy denies a certain class of Friends to follow, join, and abide even though they too “carry within them the breath of God.” The personnel policy hurts Friends. The policy points Friends in a different direction. If one is called to follow and abide it is unacceptable for Quakers to reject another Friend’s calling.

    The personnel policy is causing suffering. The children you teach do not all identify with the heterosexual model you share in the Belize school. Equality does not mean a select few are acceptable in God’s sight. One of the highest suicide and homeless rates is among gay and lesbian youth. Throughout my hours of prayer, I have felt confusion and deep grief. I am not patient with a policy that causes suffering. Please write an inclusive policy this year. Please do not use slavery as an example. Who today would agree to taking 100 yrs. to abolish slavery?

    My suggestion for your strategic priorities around leadership development is that you broaden your acceptance of all who feel called to serve. Go through the routine discernment of course. Seize the opportunity for ministry. Remember, Jesus was a “fisher of people.” There were no exceptions.

    In regard to FUM’s Global Partnership; I ask you to consider creating a safe haven, a place of refuge for the very people the personnel policy has hurt. I imagine that our gay and lesbian Friends feel unwanted and unsafe among many people and places in the world. Do we dare to embrace the outcasts like Jesus did? Do we have the “faith, courage and compassion” frequently written about in the reader to stop our part of oppression? Do we Friends in Putney Vermont, Indiana, Kenya, Belize, Ramallah have the courage to open our hearts and minds to the “others who carry within them the breath of God?”

    Day 39 reminds the reader that, “ you are FUM.” Therefore, as one who is FUM, I urge heartfelt equality among all Friends, in all places, at all times to do what God is calling us to do in all ways now, before more Friends suffer.

    Please choose love.

    How can I help?

    Holding us all in the light,

    Frances E. Herbert-Poma

    01/22/2013
    Wider Quaker World
  • Ayn Rand and Chrisitianity

    Here is a letter to the editor that I just submitted to the Keene Sentinel. It counters a claim made by another letter writer that Ayn Rand is a strong defender of “traditional Christian values.” Given that Ayn Rand has become a major intellectual influence within the US Tea Party movement and the favorite philosopher of a recent US vice-presidential candidate, I thought it was particularly important to challenge the inaccurate notion that Rand’s philosophy is consistent with the ministry of Jesus and the values of those who are faithful to his gospel of peacemaking, compassion, and justice.

    Ayn Rand and Christianity

    To the Sentinel:

    Whatever else one can say about Roger Brooks’s letter to the editor on Sunday, January 6, 2013, he is certainly wrong in his claim that Ayn Rand is a defender of “traditional Christian values.” She was, in fact, a militant atheist who said belief in the faith and practice of Jesus was evidence of “a psychological weakness.” Elsewhere she called his altruistic teachings “monstrous.”

    Mike Wallace once interviewed Ms. Rand about her view that selfishness is the most important virtue. Their exchange is revealing. Wallace said, “You are out to destroy almost every edifice of the contemporary American way of life, our Judeo-Christian religion, our modified government regulated capitalism, our rule by majority will. Other reviews have said you scorn churches and the concept of God. Are these accurate criticisms?” Rand simply replied, “Yes.”

    Later Wallace said, “You say you don’t like the kind of altruism by which we live.” Rand replied, “‘Don’t like’ is too weak a word, I consider it evil.”

    In her private journals, Rand also praised William Hickman, a convicted murderer who raped and dismembered a 12-year old girl. Why? Because of his exemplary selfishness and his ability to have “no regard whatever for all that society holds sacred.” Rand’s philosophy is the philosophy of an oppressor and a sociopath.

    I am sad for Roger Brooks that he views Ayn Rand as a moral philosopher that Americans should take to heart, especially those of us who are trying to be faithful friends and followers of Jesus. Unlike Rand, and perhaps Mr. Brooks, I don’t think Jesus’ prophetic call for us to embody an ethic of compassion, sharing, simple living, and social justice is evil or monstrous. I think it is the way of personal and national salvation.

    Steve Chase
    380 Water Street
    Keene

    01/07/2013
    Uncategorized
  • Toward a Quaker Economic Program

    Below is the announcement of the upcoming Connecticut Valley Quarterly Meeting scheduled for February 3. The program is to be about the growth dilemma and an ecologically integrated economy. Ed Dreby and Margaret Mansfield will be leading the discussion.

    Bill Upholt

    Hartford Monthly Meeting is happy to be hosting
    Connecticut Valley Quarterly Meeting

    First Day, February 3rd, 2013

    The program for the day will be presented by Ed Dreby and Margaret Mansfield and is entitled,

    “It’s the Economy Friends, Toward a Quaker Witness”

    We’ll begin by sharing initial impressions of a short video featuring Charles Eisenstein. He views our current economic system as the product of a culture of separation run amok. We’ll then consider together the basic thesis of two new Quaker Institute pamphlets about the growth dilemma and the concept of an ecologically integrated economy, which is akin to what Eisenstein calls “sacred economics.” How might a witness on ecology and the economy become a distinctive Quaker contribution to what Thomas Berry called “the great work” of our time?

    Ed Dreby and his wife Margaret Mansfield are both former social studies teachers in Quaker schools and have worked together for many years as authors, editors, and workshop facilitators on Friends testimonies, and economics from an ecological perspective. They are members of Mount Holly, New Jersey Monthly Meeting, and are also active with Friends Committee on National Legislation. Ed is also a leader of Philadelphia Yearly Meeting’s Growth Dilemma Project, and has collaborated with Quaker Institute for the Future on several publications.

    Schedule for the Day

    10:00 am Meeting for Worship with Hartford Friends

    11:00 am Introductions and Announcements

    11:15 am Refreshments

    11:30 am Program

    1:00 pm Luncheon

    2:00 pm Quarterly Meeting for business

    Hartford Friends Meetinghouse is located at 144 South Quaker Lane, West Hartford, CT 06119. We have a lift for mobility impaired persons, who are also invited to park in the meeting driveway.

    For directions, see our website: www.hartfordquakers.org

    If you need childcare, or you have food allergies or need other special assistance, please contact Chris Robinson: kranknsweet@sbcglobal.net or 860-675-5670.

    01/04/2013
    Uncategorized
  • An After Christmas Poem by Howard Thurman

    I stumbled on to this poem by Howard Thurman on Christmas eve. Thurman was a mystical, prophetic preacher active in the civil rights movement who studied with Rufus Jones and joined the Wider Quaker Fellowship in the 1960s. I found this Christmas poem of his in the book Black Fire: African American Quakers on Spirituality and Human Rights and thought it worth sharing. Many of his books have been published by Friends United Press.

    The Work of Christmas

    When the song of the angels is stilled,
    When the star in the sky is gone,
    When the kings and the princes are home,
    When the shepherds are back with their flock,
    The work of Christmas begins:
    To find the lost,
    To heal the broken,
    To feed the hungry,
    To release the prisoner,
    To rebuild the nations,
    To bring peace among brothers,
    To make music in the heart.

    12/26/2012
    Wider Quaker World
  • Lucy Duncan On How Quaker Meetings Can Work With AFSC

    Click here for a 28 minute audio of AFSC’s Friends Liaison Lucy Duncan explaining some of the opportunities for local Quaker faith-based activism in cooperation with the American Friends Service Committee.

    On October 18, 2012 Lucy Duncan, AFSC’s Friends Liaison, and Madeline Schaefer, Friends Relations Fellow, discussed a new and developing program at AFSC—the Quaker Meeting/Church Liaison Program.

    The liaison program supports Quaker congregations’ work for peace and justice, while at the same time working to broaden the impact of AFSC’s programs.

    On this call, Lucy and Madeline discussed how the program was developed, the components of the program, and how your meeting/church can get involved.

    12/13/2012
    Wider Quaker World
  • Nonviolent Direct Action Training Opportunity on December 1

    Dear Members, Attenders, and Supporters of Putney Friends Meeting,

    I’m thrilled to invite you all to a very low-cost nonviolent direct action training workshop this Saturday, on December 1, from 9 am to 5 pm in the main Community Room at Antioch University New England, 40 Avon Street, Keene, NH. If you are interested, please send an RSVP email to me in the next few days, bring a bag lunch for yourself on Saturday, and, if at all possible, be prepared to make a $5 donation when you arrive in order to cover training materials and the travel expense of our two trainers. However, please know that no one will be turned away for lack of funds.

    The two trainers leading this Saturday’s workshop are experienced members of the nonviolent action training committee of the SAGE Alliance, the year-old campaign of concerned citizens from Vermont, New Hampshire, and Massachusetts working to support the State of Vermont in its efforts to decommission the aging and leaking Vermont Yankee nuclear reactor as soon as possible. The SAGE Alliance has recently focused on educational events and also trained people to participate at the two recent public hearings of Vermont’s Public Service Board.

    But more citizen action is needed between now and next Fall when the Public Service Board will likely make its final decision about whether Vermont Yankee’s owners will receive a “Certificate of Public Good” to keep operating the reactor for another 20 years, or whether the corporation will have to shut the reactor down as planned and clean up the hazardous site in Vernon, Vermont, as long advocated by Vermont’s Senator, Governor, Attorney General, State Senate, Department of Public Service, and the many citizen’s groups in the tri-state area that make up the SAGE Alliance campaign.

    Between now and the PSB’s decision in the Fall, the SAGE Alliance wants to train as many area people as possible to engage in creative, disciplined, and effective nonviolent public demonstrations–including well-organized acts of nonviolent civil disobedience. Many of us already have some experience with this as sixty New England Quakers held a meeting for worship at the gates of the reactor on September 23 and ten people at the action committed civil disobedience, including four people from Putney Friends Meeting. The goal in all this work is to keep this important regional issue in the public eye and influence the decisions of both the Louisiana-based Entergy Corporation, which owns Vermont Yankee, and the three-member Public Service Board, which currently has the legal power to close Vermont Yankee if it determines that Entergy does not deserve a Certificate of Public Good.

    Have you ever wanted to know more about how to effectively participate in a nonviolent citizen action campaign and deepen your skills to engage in nonviolent civil disobedience actions either as a participant or as a support person? Are you concerned about the proposed 20-year extension of Vermont Yankee’s operation beyond its original expiration date of March 21, 2012? Have you wanted to do more to act in unity with Putney Friends Meeting’s minute on supporting the citizens movement to close Vermont Yankee? If any of these three things are true for you, I would love to have you join us this Saturday, from 9 to 5, in Antioch University New England’s Community Room for this important civic engagement skill-building workshop.

    This Saturday’s nonviolent direct action skills training workshop is co-sponsored by Nuke Free Antioch, Nuke Free Monadnock, and the Environmental Studies master’s concentration that I direct at Antioch in Advocacy for Social Justice and Sustainability. The training workshop is open to the public, as well as any interested Antioch students, faculty, staff, and alumni, so please feel free to forward this invitation to anyone in the area that you think might be interested.

    Also, please let me know if you have any further questions about this nonviolent direct action training opportunity, and please RSVP to me ASAP if you would like to reserve a slot at this Saturday’s training workshop.

    All my best,

    Steve Chase
    Director of the Master’s Program Concentration in
    Advocacy for Social Justice and Sustainability
    Department of Environmental Studies
    Antioch University New England
    40 Avon Street, Keene, NH 03431
    schase@antioch.edu; 603-283-2336 (office); 603-357-0718 (fax)

    11/25/2012
    Community Events, Member Activities
  • Meeting Events From November 24 to December 16, 2012

    Here are some upcoming events sponsored by Putney Friends Meeting:

    Nov. 24: 4:30 – 6:00 40 Day of Prayer Discernment Discussion, followed by a potluck

    Nov. 25: Worship 8:30 & 10:30
    9:30 Adult Study:
    12:15 Healing Circle

    Dec. 2: Worship 8:30 & 10:30
    9:30 Steve Chase talking about his book: Letters to a Fellow Seeker
    10:30 First Day School

    Dec. 6: 7 pm. “Tipping Point –Age of the Oil Sands” Movie and discussion sponsored by Putney Friends Social Justice & Peace Committee. Free Will offering to cover expenses.

    Dec. 8: Worship 8:30 & 10:30
    9:30 – Adult Study

    Dec. 12: PFM provides supper for the Overflow Shelter at the Baptist Church in Brattleboro – contact Sora Friedman to help.

    Dec. 13: 7 pm “ Silent Voices” a movie regarding migrant workers. At the Brooks Memorial Library.

    Dec. 15 10:30: Gingerbread house making at the Meetinghouse

    Dec. 16: Worship 8:30 & 10:30
    First Day School 10:30
    Cookie Exchange at 11:30
    Business Meeting at 12:15

    11/21/2012
    Uncategorized
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